Welcome to our 5-part series where its build on, “Do You Know What Your Helper Is Up To On Her Day Off?” In this series, we’ll explore practical steps employers can take to ensure their domestic helpers stay engaged, safe, and responsible on their off days.
Why This Matters?
Many employers assume their helpers automatically understand what is acceptable behavior during their free time. However, not all helpers have the same level of awareness about potential risks, and some may unknowingly put themselves in unsafe or problematic situations due to:
🔹 Peer influence
🔹 Misinformation
🔹 Lack of clear guidelines
As an employer, it’s important to set expectations early to avoid misunderstandings and create a sense of mutual trust and security.
How to Set Clear Expectations Without Being Overly Restrictive
1. Use Real-Life Examples
Sometimes, a story is more powerful than a lecture. Share real incidents (like the recent Paya Lebar case involving a helper getting into trouble on her day off) to highlight potential risks. When helpers understand the consequences, they are more likely to make responsible choices.
2. Have an Open Conversation
Instead of assuming she knows what’s appropriate, take the time to discuss your concerns in a respectful and understanding way. Keep the conversation two-way—allow her to express her thoughts and ask questions. This helps both of you align expectations while maintaining a healthy working relationship.
3. Encourage Honesty
Many helpers hide their activities out of fear of being scolded or punished. However, a strict, fear-based approach often leads to secrecy. Instead, foster open communication by letting her know she can be honest about her plans without facing immediate negative consequences.
By establishing trust and mutual understanding, you can help your helper make better decisions while still respecting her independence and personal time.
What’s Next?
In our next post, we’ll explore constructive activities for helpers on their days off—practical ways to keep them engaged and away from trouble!